Yeah, and it's really tough to balance, because on the one hand you don't want to be a joyless unpleasant prig and on the other you don't want to be colluding in your own debasement. It's like walking a tightrope, and I can't say I haven't fallen off a few times, in both directions. *sigh*
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Date: 2008-12-13 04:10 am (UTC)